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Hello hello guys😁

I’ve missed you guys no doubt😘

Let me get straight into this but before that I’ll tell you something interesting at the end of this blog post so make sure you read to the very bottom ok?

Ok let’s begin ❤️

I know this kind human being and I happen to be minding my business on a cool day like that when she came over.

Now I know her boyfriend and we went to the same school. She was in a long distance relationship by the way. On coming to school she kind of met with someone who genuinely liked her. Call it conflict of desire because she sort of liked him too.

So things happened here and there and there was a kiss involved. As a good girl that she is, she felt guilty and told her boyfriend. He was somewhat offended and sort of forgiving atleast that’s how he made it looked like but left her with a simple advice. Enjoy your school life. She kept things with the new guy at bay more like an on and off thing. Don’t get me wrong but she was confused and that advice didn’t really seem like anything hurtful at the time.

Anyways, communication gradually deteriorated and you know the thing with long distance relationship all these are key ingredients in the dish you’re preparing and to be far you don’t always get to finish cooking.

About 3 months later, guess who is getting married! Our very mature and intelligent boyfriend. Don’t mind me am actually really pissed!

Uhm let me just say before continuing that this was absolutely unfair and to say she found through his WhatsApp status and later a confirmation from a friend! No it’s not fair! A good and nice heads up could have worked!

She’s hurt that’s definite and am hurt too because this person is pretty much close to my heart and to say she wanted to give up because honestly long distance relationship or not communication was always a problem for him and I kept thinking it was probably because he was introverted but yet again who in this God’s world loves a woman and won’t want to always talk to her!

The good news about this is this guy she kissed actually stuck around. I heard love works like that. Hopefully he doesn’t go marry without a heads up.

What this guy did was totally stupid I mean he be acting like an angel meanwhile the whole time he be the devil himself! Am just glad she was able to find out earlier like not on the wedding day or something because crazy things be happening people. So watch out

She’s holding up just fine and luckily for her she has someone to comfort her.

Okay okay to the sweet news 😊 your girl has graduated university loves and am so beyond happy 😘😘 Which means I’ll be here more so make sure you stick around because I have a lot of gistssss coming your way❤️

Anyways leave your comments below I’ll love to read what you think about this whole thing!

Ok loves until next time stay safe and make sure you double check your boyfriends because these men ain’t it!!

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Hi hi😁

As usual, it’s been a while 😂 hope you’re all good and living well? If so Alhamdulilah and if not hoping and wishing you everything good!

So guys, today’s blog post isn’t a story ( actually is anyways) but like real life events that have happened to me and am pretty sure has happened to a good number of people too. So today’s blog post is an appreciation post and acknowledgement of good people who still walk this earth!

You’ve probably heard about people helping people without any ulterior motive or intention whatsoever, as much as this isn’t always the case, these people really do exist and things like this very much still happen. So am going to share my experiences with four(3) amazing souls and how they helped me at different phases of my life.

A random woman in the bus:

So, unfortunately I don’t know the name of this woman and I was too excited to actually ask! I schooled pretty far from my home and had to travel about 12states to get to my school and after getting to the bus stop, I have to take a cab to my school. On a particular resumption day, I didn’t have enough money for the cab and it was already getting late. I was panicking and started crying then she walks up to me and asked what the problem was and I explained to her after that this woman opened her handbag and gave me 1000naira which was actually more than enough. She asked me to wipe my tears and go study hard in school. Omo the way I was thanking this woman that night and showering prayer on her eh. Up until now she’s always in my prayers 🙏. I went to a boarding secondary school by the way. And this woman was just so helpful. God bless her!

A random guy :

Am not always in trouble o but life is life Sha. I was low on cash on a particular day and I had to go to like where to withdraw and stuff. On reaching there, Airtel decided they didn’t want to have network that day😒 I was trying to transfer and it wasn’t going through oh and firstbank was acting up too. And another worst thing I forgot my ATM pin(I can be such a….just forget) and my sis couldn’t transfer because she had reached her transfer limit for the day! A worker there noticed how frustrated I was and I had already spent more than 2hrs there infact the workers were waiting on me to close. He asked how much I needed for the night atleast and I told him and this guy gave me the money and collected my number saying I could just bring the money to him the next day. Hold up… So honestly this guy blindly helped me not even considering the fact that I could just run away (stupid but still a point) and he just helped me. I was really thankful honestly and I couldn’t even believe it. Long story short, I gave him back the money the next day with an ocean deep of gratitude. May God bless him 😇

Mr Tope:

This man is actually very close to my heart honestly and although I wouldn’t be able to tell you everything everything in detail because of how lengthy it’ll be am going to tell you atleast one of it so you get the gist. So this guy was my house agent and he usually comes to come get my rent so he could give it to the landlord because he was in charge of that and stuff. He came one day and I was totally broke like freaking broke and I explained to him. This man out of the kindness of his heart told me he’ll pay the rent and whenever I have money I should pay him back as if that wasn’t enough he went out and actually got me food. Like guys!! There was a time I and my cousin needed a place to sleep and this guy voluntarily offered us his house even though he was a family man and a prophet. Honestly I will forever be grateful to this man like I said I can’t say everything but hopefully this one example goes a long way. God bless you sir🙏

If you think good people don’t exist anymore because of the condition of the world today, have a rethink! These were my experiences and it has taught me to pass on the good deed and you could do the same too!

Until next time be good and spread love and stay safe. Much love from me❗💙 make sure to like and share this so others can read too❤️

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Hi hi 😊

You good? Am hoping you are😘

So I recently came across this story and I thought my friends should know about this too😂

So two girls walk into a pharmacy on a sunny afternoon and ask for a pregnancy test kit. The other girl goes out to receive a call and her friend decided to ask for help since they were in a dilemma.

Ruth (the friend) to the pharmacist: uhm sorry to disturb you I was just wondering if you could help us out.

Pharmacist: sure, you don’t know how to use the test kit?

Ruth: no no that’s not it. Actually my friend is pregnant well she thinks she’s pregnant atleast.

Pharmacist: ok….. She can confirm now that she has the kit.

Ruth: that’s where there’s a problem. My friend has 3 boyfriends and within the course of 1week she kind of uhm you know…. slept with all of them.

Pharmacist (eyes her thoroughly): how’s that my problem?

Ruth: she doesn’t know who’s responsible and somebody needs to take responsibility.

Pharmacist: first off, you and your friend are very stupid children, at your age! You guys are idiots! Second off even if I knew who might be responsible I won’t tell you guys! She should suffer for the pain she’s about to bring to her parents and for the unborn child she’s about to bring to this world in this condition!

Ok! This was one hell of a story! But it’s a true life story anyways.

Just because you’ve been given freedom doesn’t mean you should abuse it. We are in a world that’s so exposed and you have to be disciplined to to be able to stand out and stand right!

I read a quote somewhere in secondary school that said; freedom does not consist in doing what you want or as you please but in having the discipline to do what is right.

You go out today and see a lot of young girls in the wrong situation. Is it that they don’t know what is right or wrong? Nah it is kwadoyi! Longer throat! Lack of patience! This is something you will eventually get to enjoy but no you will not hear word!!

But the tricky question here is who do you think will be responsible for the pregnancy? The first guy? The second guy? Or the third guy?

I would love to know your answers so just leave a comment for me and I will really appreciate that 😊

Ok byeeee ❤️🖤❤️

Oh and I misplaced my apartment key this week 😣 again!!!! At this point I need pra

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Hi hi😁

Hope everyone is doing quite well? I know I’ve been like #MIA on here but I can explain and I will explain.

So I just wanted to come on here and talk about something real quick.

So, I don’t know what has been going on with me for the past few months or so but I’ve been misplacing important items! And it’s really really annoying because those items are of sentimental value to me (all of my things actually!) And I don’t know for some weird reasons I just keep losing them.

First off it was my hydro flask which I absolutely loved! I took it out one day and never brought it back! I was so mad and upset and kept consoling myself with the fact that I’ll find it and let me just say it’s been over a month now and I still can’t find it!

Then my wristband was next. Went to the market with friends the other day and in the process of trying on a long sleeve shirt(my bad, I should have taken it Off first!), low-key think it just slid off never to be found again. Let me just say I went back to that market and searched for it even asked the store owner but I couldn’t find it. Am still very upset about it because my mom specifically gave that to me. But am hoping I at least come across it or get something similar at least.

I don’t know about you but everything I own is just really special to me no matter how minute or insignificant it appears I just don’t like losing my things honestly!

The last one (I really hope it’s the last thing I ever lose!!!) Is my wallet a very cute baby pink and white mini girl wallet. I bought snacks at a store and forgot it there. I was very pissed but luckily when I went back to ask, it was right there waiting for me! Damn! I was so freaking relieved because I was like I can’t keep losing things like this 😭

Anyways am sure we all misplace or lose things once a while and whether or not we admit it, it’s always very annoying if you lose things. What I can say is, if you lose something especially something of sentimental value and importance don’t fret about it too much. Just try and relax and recall where you might have lost it and be patient. Chances are you may or may not find it which is not ok but still ok. And if you can’t find it, most definitely it can be replaced although not always the same but it could do.

And you can always be like me fervently praying and hoping to find it one day!

And about my inconsistency. It is with great displeasure that I have to announce that I will be writing exams and I need to concentrate and study hard for it because we don’t fail exams over here boo!. Please bear with me because it’ll be over before you know it!

Ok! That’s all do have a great week ahead and remember not to loose or misplace anything!😘😘😘

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Hi

Am upset. Mad. Angry. Pissed. Annoyed. Sad. Angry. Mad. Oh I already typed those.☹️

So I don’t know what I recently pressed on my phone but everything literally everything got wiped except the apps. I don’t know how to really describe how I felt or how am still feeling but I know am feeling a tad bit better now that I’ve eaten.

My videos and pictures were all gone but luckily for me a good amount of my pictures were recovered but as for the videos it’s really unfortunate that the only option is to re- download it (if that a word). I still can’t really place my hand on what really happened my only guess is that the memory was full and it just automatically formatted itself (if that’s really possible).

Long story short am just tired of fussing about it I mean it’s been 48hours since it happened and my phone is now a stranger to me. Can u believe that? But I low-key feel like I can resolve it(even though everyone’s telling me it’s impossible) . Let me atleast console myself with that. With time I will. I just need time. Right?

The whole situation with this, I’ve just really been trying to be optimistic about it and see the light at the end of this tunnel which is somewhat impossible because my eyes are closed and I can’t see.😑

I’ve just come to understand that things like this happen in life you really think everything is good and boom life hits you! And you like have to calm down and re-evaluate because there are always solutions to everything.

My music and videos might be gone and even if I can retrieve some am sure I won’t be completely able to retrieve all but Alhamdulilah because my phone didn’t crash and my apps are intact with all information on it secured that’s atleast one good thing.

Maybe you’re going through similar stuff it really must not be about a phone but just know there’s always solutions to everything. Just relax and you’ll figure it out.

And am so sorry I haven’t been uploading as often as I should. Am currently writing tests and I just wanted to concentrate. But not withstanding I have a warehouse full of gists for y’all so stay tuned 😘

Bye…🖤

Hi, hello

So a video of Derrick jaxn and his wife was aired on social media today and in that video he was openly admitting to his wife and the world that he cheated on her not with one but several women!

Aside from that being the most annoying and discomforting situation (as the wife) to ever be in, I just want to say that is absolutely not cool!

First of, you claim to be Christian and that is contrary to what you preach and believe but you went ahead and did it ? Like that wasn’t enough you bring this innocent woman to sit with you and listen to you confess and that too to the whole world?

Men y’all need to buckle your belt! Nobody is above mistakes but if you made a vow, be sure to keep it and if you can’t don’t tie the knot in the first place!

Cheating should absolutely not be tolerated! Mistake or no mistake that’s a choice you can make.

Another video pops on my IG feed today too, a guy and his friends confronting a girl (his girlfriend) apparently she was caught cheating on him with someone else and when asked she said he cheated too and he slapped her saying am a guy. Bro what the hell? You’re a guy and so?

Boys! Guys! Men! This is not cool! Cheating on your significant other and thinking it is cool or a mistake that can be forgiven is really bad. Y’all know the emotional trauma someone has to go through being with you despite knowing you cheated and betrayed their trust?

My beautiful ladies stop taking this men back thinking they’ll change and learn from their mistake they won’t really do the same for you(most of them). Stop giving them reasons to hurt you just because you love them. Love doesn’t always have to be pain.

To me though if you cheat on me, am never getting over that which means you’ll have to go. Sorry I don’t share!

Hiiyo🙋

You know how they say your life could change overnight? Well I thought they were mere words with no concrete meanings but am wrong and these words are actually very true and accurate. You may decide to call it fate or destiny or even attraction but I see this as Miracles.

I remember being younger and I saw a pamphlet in my mum’s Bible that read; miracles happen everyday for those who believe. I never really understood the meanings of those words till I grew older and it resonated with me.

The past week have been really hectic and chaotic for me and in that chaos, I found meaning and am glad I did. A little thing here and there really just puts it together. I want to go on rambling but that’s for another day.

Am just glad everything is becoming clear for me and am really keeping this attitude of whatever comes, comes and whatever goes, goes. I think you should do that too and always keep in mind that it’s about the small steps.

It’s the weekend! Go out if you can a little vitamin D and tan won’t hurt nobody. I love you and have a great weekend 🖤

Halo🙋

It’s really easy to get caught up in life either with what others are doing or what you’re not doing. Life has its ups and downs and as much as we all don’t want to accept it, there are going to be bad days. Lately depression is becoming a norm, you see young talented people getting depressed over trivial issues and wonder what’s going on. It’s because we’re too caught up following other people’s lives that we don’t even realize we need to live ours!

Bad and negative thoughts are inevitable and one thing I’ve been doing that’s been working for me is; replacing my negative thoughts with a positive one. You don’t realize how much negative thoughts crosses your mind in a day till you consciously start keeping track. So whenever a “OMG she’s gorgeous” comes to mind make sure the next thing is “am gorgeous too”.

You see just because others don’t see it doesn’t mean it’s not there!

There’s time for everything and everyone. The good book says: for everything there’s a season, A time for every activity under the heaven. Ecclesiastes 3:1. So if you’re not on a vacation at the moment, it’s probably not time yet, not feeling as good as you should? It’s just not time.

Don’t let the world rush you don’t let the internet rush you. Life na turn by turn. You’re good just the way you are!

Hello🙋

You’ve ever been in a funky mood where nothing is wrong but nothing feels right too? Or is it just me?

Anyways I’ve been feeling like that but you know how they say there’s always light at the end of the tunnel? I haven’t reached my light but I can see it and that’s progress right?.

So I’ve been on and off for a while not because I don’t have anything to write but because I’ve just been contemplating and am making a bit of changes so bear with me. Hope you’ve been good? Hanging in there for me? Told you before don’t be too serious live life boo!

I went out to the beach with a very interesting friend we just became friends honestly and am intrigued by this person. You know when you just meet someone and y’all click? That’s what am talking about. I didn’t want to go at first but there’s just something about the beach that calms my soul you know listening to the waves, endlessly wondering the end of it, what’s beneath, and hopelessly fantasizing about taking a voyage on a Ferris 😂sounds crazy but my mind’s like that. We spoke at length and that conversation just made me feel better and the other person felt better too.

I was able to clear my head and just enjoy the moment. So my weekend was fun actually. And I learnt something; no matter how you’re feeling, getting up and doing something literally anything gets it done. Don’t just sit and do nothing get up and be active, yes there’s always the whole feel whatever you’re feeling part but don’t drown in the name of doing that. I hope you get up and do something fun today 💚

Have a lovely weekend and stay safe😘