Cheating?

Hi, hello

So a video of Derrick jaxn and his wife was aired on social media today and in that video he was openly admitting to his wife and the world that he cheated on her not with one but several women!

Aside from that being the most annoying and discomforting situation (as the wife) to ever be in, I just want to say that is absolutely not cool!

First of, you claim to be Christian and that is contrary to what you preach and believe but you went ahead and did it ? Like that wasn’t enough you bring this innocent woman to sit with you and listen to you confess and that too to the whole world?

Men y’all need to buckle your belt! Nobody is above mistakes but if you made a vow, be sure to keep it and if you can’t don’t tie the knot in the first place!

Cheating should absolutely not be tolerated! Mistake or no mistake that’s a choice you can make.

Another video pops on my IG feed today too, a guy and his friends confronting a girl (his girlfriend) apparently she was caught cheating on him with someone else and when asked she said he cheated too and he slapped her saying am a guy. Bro what the hell? You’re a guy and so?

Boys! Guys! Men! This is not cool! Cheating on your significant other and thinking it is cool or a mistake that can be forgiven is really bad. Y’all know the emotional trauma someone has to go through being with you despite knowing you cheated and betrayed their trust?

My beautiful ladies stop taking this men back thinking they’ll change and learn from their mistake they won’t really do the same for you(most of them). Stop giving them reasons to hurt you just because you love them. Love doesn’t always have to be pain.

To me though if you cheat on me, am never getting over that which means you’ll have to go. Sorry I don’t share!